“On those days when we’re not ready to stop being offended, not ready to forgive, still determined to dish out the silent treatment, what we’re actually saying is,
“Thanks, but I don’t want to become more like the Savior today. Maybe
tomorrow, but not today.” Perhaps those are the times when we need to pray
the hardest, the times it becomes clear that a change in behavior is not enough–that we must have a change in nature.”

― Sheri L. Dew 

The source of this quote is from the book titled, Saying It Like It Is